We may or may not ever be able to make an announcement that "we're pregnant"...but we have come to understand that the blessing is the fact that however parenthood happens, it is a miracle! ....... Now we have been home with our precious blessing from Russia since August 2007. Join us on our fun and crazy ride that we call "life with this child of mine."
Monday, October 20, 2008
100,000
Who knew, when I started this blog just for the convenience of updating family and friends in one forum, that just over 2 years later, I'd have 100,000 hits?  I know lots of people that reach this number in a lot less time, but I think it's pretty cool that I've finally reached that marker!

I've got a couple of informational posts milling around in my head and just have to find the time to get them down "on paper."  

But while I'm getting those in order...in honor of my 100,000th hit, I want to declare another de-lurk day!  And the goal is to reach 100 comments on this post.  I don't even know if 100 people read my blog anymore - but let's see how far we can get it.  So what does "de-lurk" mean?  It means to comment on this post - all readers...and especially those that are normally a non-commenter, or a former-commenter!  Tell me something about you that I might not know...or just share where you found out about this blog (especially if you haven't shared that before).

I wish I could think of some sort of contest to make it fun, but if I add anything to my plate, I might go insane.  But I might do a random drawing and see what cool thing I have to give away to 3 lucky people...IF we make it all the way to 100. :)  Incentives!

Can you tell I'm running on fumes?

So with that, I will hush....and go to bed.  Happy 100,000th hit!!
64 Comments:
WTG!

Blogger Barb said...
I think this is the first time I have commented on your blog, but I have been following along since sometime in the summer... I don't remember how I came across your blog, but it was probably through someone else's bloglist. BTW, I loved the last post's video of Ilya dancing - he really does have some moves! Have a great day, and hope you reach 100!
Barb

Blogger Lindsay said...
I love following along with your story, Melissa. I started reading when I was doing all my own pre-adoption preparation and at that time it the posts about attachment and development I found most interesting. Now Hannah is home I still enjoy reading that kind of stuff, but also just the normal day-to-day stuff. Plus I appreciate the photography tips.

Love the vidoes of Iliya - in fact Hannah and I were watching him dance again yesterday. Hannah loves your boy :)

Best wishes,
Lindsay

Blogger Jenny and Randy said...
I'll de-lurk! :) I'm a fellow mom of two little guys from Russia, also adopted through CHI. I found your blog on CHI's blog and enjoy checking it from time to time for the witty updates on your adorable little guy and on motherhood in general!

Blogger Susan said...
You know it was your story that led us to Russia and eventually to Artem so who knows how many of those 100,000 hits are mine!!

Blogger Heather Brandt said...
I've been reading for a while but have not commented. We are waiting on a court date for the little boy we are adopting.

heather
www.russianblessings.wordpress.com

Blogger Deb said...
Well I still read just don't comment as often. And I've been following you from the beginning pretty much. Can't believe it's been 2 years.

Blogger ana said...
Wow, 100,000 hits! That's pretty cool. I have really enjoyed reading your blog, and Iliya is just so cute!

Blogger Grammy of five said...
As your aunt, I don't normally comment - just enjoy reading and finding out what's happening in the Bridges' life. Glad you're adjusting well in your new location. And let Iliya know, he has some competition with his Granmom - Sunday morning Kaitlyn mentioned Uncle Dave and Aunt Lini and she said - "I love Aunt Lini".

I think it is so wonderful that all these future parents are able to read your blog and receive some insight to adoption, especially Russian adoption. I love to use your links when I have some free time and go to their sites and read some of their experiences. Who would have thought even ten years ago that this would be possible.

Love
Sis

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Melissa, I have been reading your blog at least once a week for many months. I like keeping up with Iliya's progress. Congratulations on your new job but we are going to miss you at Central. We hope you will visit often. Keep blogging till Iliya graduates from college. Love you guys. Shirley

Blogger Ginger said...
Seems like longer than 2+ years ago that your adoption process started...so much water under the bridge. (Almost a bad pun there. ;-)
Congrats on the milestone!

Blogger Loren said...
I've been following your blog since you traveled. We're floating the idea of adoption now and your story has been a great inspiration.

Loren in Tennessee

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Just wanted to add to your 100 comments! I have three adopted grandchildren and couldn't love them more if they were blood related! Good luck in the future!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Amen! to the previous comment! I feel that Iliya was "born" into our family through God's blessing. Just think, how many single young men that have never even thought of changing diapers, are enthusiastic about keeping their little nephew that is still in the diaper stage??? It must be for love and the joy that he brings.

I haven't counted, yet I'm sure a few of the 100,000 blog visits have been mine & grandad's :o)

Isn't it wonderful that when our children are happy, how much happier we are? Maybe today won't be unique and each morning will go as well as today did at the start of the day at preschool.

We love you all,
granmom (& grandad)

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hi'ya!! :o) Congrats on 6 digits!

Blogger Ronda said...
Nice job on all the hits. Just dropping by to say hello and catch up on Iliya. Having met you all in Russia you seem like family. Keep up the good work. Our two little ones are doing great.

Ronda

Blogger Tori said...
Hey Melissa, I must confess I read (as does my mother so this will cover 2 of your readers) but just don't comment very often. I love to see how things are going with you guys and what new things Iliya picks up. Congrats on your move. I hope you guys are enjoying it there and are getting settled in.

Blogger Elle said...
I'll add to the comment count. Congrats on 2 years of blogging. I'm coming up on 4 years.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hey Melissa,
Nothing about your blog except I LOVE IT!!! I read atleast once a week. The real reason for the comment is I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!!! Can you please come back????? I miss our little chats and having someone to share with. How is the house selling going??? Hope to see you soon!!! XOXOX Shana

Blogger Heidi said...
My turn. I'm a fellow mom who has adopted 3 kids from Russia. It has been enjoyable to follow your story!
:)

Blogger Heidi said...
hiya its Heidi from England, we have been e mailing, i have my little boy from russia who came home in feb, i think your blog is great and iliya is gorgeous, cant believe that many posts!, keep up the blogging, cant believe i met my son 1 year ago this week

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Melissa--

I met you in Alabama while I was helping my sister out at a conference that you put on.

I've been reading and lurking since then. Thanks for your sharing your story with me!

Congrats on 100,000!

-Kimi

Blogger Unknown said...
Aunt Ki Ki reporting in! This is a really cool idea, and I love seeing people from all over the world commenting on the little DARLING. Miss you guys A LOT!!! (and yes, I know that I'm still seeing you on the weekends...it's just knowing that I CAN'T see you during the week that seems to be getting me these days.) love you, Kristy

Anonymous Anonymous said...
hi
im a lurker i dont remember when i started reading your blog or how i found it but i love it hope

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hello! I too am a lurker, I check the blog almost daily, and when there hasn't been a post in a while, I sometimes check many times in one day thinking that you may have posted while I was away from my computer, and I just have to see the latest news/pics/stories/video.....I think I'm officially an addict!!! :-) I miss yall too! but am glad you are all adjusting to the new move! ~ April

Blogger Nancy said...
I'm still here! I read it when I can. I like to see the other kids from Vlad and hear how they are doing. :)

Blogger bstyles said...
Hey Melissa. Obviously we've known each other since high school, jr. high, or something of that sort. I think I found out about your site through Myspace. Anyway, I now have a family blog. You'll have to check us out at stylesthree.blogspot.com... I really love reading your posts. Our little ones are close to the same age, so I find it interesting to see how different boy toddlers are from girls.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hi, I'm delurking to say congrats on 10,000! Hubby and I plan on adopting someday, although I think we're starting to lean toward domestic... I've really enjoyed reading your family's story! Please keep blogging!
-Ana (KY)

Blogger The Wilson's said...
Hi Melissa! I'm still reading well over a year later. Your blog introducted me to the world of blogging -- you do a great job. I do think that we will have to talk about that header though -- Fear the Turtle!

Blogger Becky and Keith said...
Happy 100,000 posts! :-)

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hey Girl! Just stopping by to say HI! Miss you lots and lots and can't wait for you to see the canvas framed (I should have it back by next Monday). You'll have to come over for a visit when I get it hung. :) Love ya! Have a good night! ~Cindi L.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I must have found your blog on Adrienne's list and I rarely comment but I do want you to reach your goal. I really enjoy your writing style and the regularity with which you post. I do hope that you will keep us updated on your darling little son until he grows up, goes to college, marries -- even when he makes you a grandma! LOL
Tharen

Blogger Kelly Etheredge said...
Hey! I usually don't leave messages, but I love reading your blog! You have a way with words! It's great. I started reading your blog soon after I got mine this year. My mother in law Debbie had your blog linked on hers. Keep it up I love it! Hope your move was great and everything is back to normal.

You know who I am!! I'm glad to see the move went well and Iliya is starting to adjust to being left at school. Loved seeing the dancing video!!!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hmm something about me you may not know... Gee I think I have been a open book for 9 years (wow has it been that long) since I joined TLOL/Military Spouses. Something I think you may not know about me is that I love to run, I just don't have time. I also have a form of Social Phobia and most of my friends are locked up in my computer. lol

Anonymous Anonymous said...
De-lurking, although, I may have left a comment or two before this. I have been reading your blog for quite awhile. I would love to adopt, but my husband is happy with our current family size (2 bio boys).

We have some friends with no children who desparately want children but have had some fertility issues. They are now looking into adoption. I'm so jealous of her. (is that wrong????)

Blogger Jodi said...
Hi Melissa! I don't know if I have ever left you a comment, but I've been reading your blog for quite awhile. I'm a Russian adoptive mommy of 2 amazing kids, and I know Susan and Artem...in fact, we live in the same town. :) I have family in Montgomery...maybe we'll meet up someday. ;)

Blogger Laura Forman said...
I have been reading your blog since before you went to Russia to get Iliya. I had an interest to read because, one we are from the same hometown, and second because we want to adopt someday too!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Melissa! I miss you guys and wish you were closer! I'm glad that you all are going to be a part of my family soon. I just wish that we could be closer!!

LOVE THE BLOG!!!

Christen

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Happy 100,000 hits!!!
May the Lord continue to bless you.
Pam Parker

Anonymous Anonymous said...
forgot how i found you. but have loved every post. rita from ga

Blogger Joy said...
Your the first blog I ever read. I'm still waiting but I love showing your blog to family and friends who fear adoption of a child from an orphanage. Iliya is so cute and the things he does are very funny. I hope to pass through your way one day so that I can get you to take my family portrait.
Joy

Blogger Maeflower said...
Hi,
I also forgot how I found you but after my daughter became a blogger and sent me a link or two, it was so addictive to go to each blog and find out about so many great people. My new granddaughter is in the US 8 months and she is a very Americanized little Russian girl.
Your blog is very nice.
Maeflower (Or Babushka as I'm also known)

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hi Melissa,

I read several Russian Adoption blogs, as my husband and I are PAP's. This is the first time I have ever de-lurked! Hope you reach your goal.

Adriane from SC

Blogger Robin said...
Happy 100,000 hit

Blogger Nathan said...
I think I'm disqualified from the drawing but I do love your blog Sweetheart. Keep up the good work.

ILY-N

Blogger Laura S said...
Hi! I have enjoyed your blog over the last year or so and really appreciate your candor on some of the harder issues. I know that sometimes it hard to share but I think you do it in a way that is both informative and humorous.

Something you may or may not know about me...I am also a photographer. lauraspeake dot com

Blogger Heidi said...
Um, truth be told, this is my 2nd comment here.
But 48 is about 47 more than I ever get - good for you!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
You and I have talked before Melissa, as my husband and I were getting ready to adopt from Vlad. Our little girl is home now (almost 4 months), and I still continue to follow your blog.

Heidi from WI

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I have been reading your blog since you adopted that precious son...I have known Nathan's grandmother and grandfather since we were children and didn't know for a while who you were...just that I was enjoying reading about your adventure. Keep on writing and letting us peep in on your lives. Joyce

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Well Melissa I have been reading your Blog since close from the begining. Nathan's Uncle Buddy and Aunt Nancy are mine and Earl's best friend's.

I have kept up with you and check almost everyday to see if you have posted anything. When you don't write I feel bummed out. To me it's like reading a really good book. I love the blog and love hearing about Iliya and his changing. You can so tell he is one happy little boy. You two have been the best parent's and he is so adorable.

Nathan comes from a wonderful, great christian family that I love very much......Carolyn Nelson.......Paisley, Florida.

Blogger Tony and Dawn said...
Glad to hear Illiya is settling in. My youngest cries to go to work with me when I have an overnight trip (only once per week). She told me she did not like it when Papa sleepy, sleepy at rabota (work). Breaks my heart, but I call her every day. Hope you are finding your way around Montgomery! God Bless -

Blogger Kay B said...
I'm still here too! How could I not follow along my fellow Vlad family! It's great to see Ilya grow.

So, here's one more for your goal of 100!

Blogger Jane said...
so does it count if I leave like 40 comments!?!
found you before you traveled to pick your ADORABLE little man up, can't remember from which blog. sorry.
LOVE your writings! Always!
your blog has inspired me to be a better me. thank you!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Un-Lurking...

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hi,

Delurking... I've been following your blog for sometime. I think of got here from Debbie's blog originally. I have a son and daughter adopted in 2003 and 2005 and today is our one year gotcha day for our son from Uzbekistan!

Love the blog...
Katie

I always enjoy reading your posts about Iliya and your family! I comment some but am sometimes in a hurry when I read and don't leave one. I hope things are going well!

Blogger kate said...
Happy 100,000!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I've never commented before but I have been reading your blog since pre-Ilya. You used to work with a friend of mine and she turned me on to your blog. I enjoy it so much. By the way, I saw Ilya in the Kids Magazine.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Well, better late than never! I don't have computer access like I once did-what with trying to keep up with 3 houses! Anyways, congrats on the BIG number!! You know that we are sooooo crazy about that grandson of ours! I honestly cannot imagine our lives without him in it. He is just an adorable little boy!
Love you all,
Nana & Papa

I have been reading your blog since you have brought Iliya home b/c that is when I found your blog. We adopted a boy from Russia also. Kaden has been home for 5 months now. I love reading your blog b/c you are so honest!

Blogger Cindy said...
I first found your blog when you were in Russia on Trip 2. I was waiting for a referral and had so much fun reading about your family. It gave me hope that we might actually complete our adoption. We had our court date 5 months ago and have a beautiful little girl! I still like to check in on you and see how Iliya is growing and learning.

Blogger Deanna said...
Hi Melissa! I'm from Scottsboro (a year behind Christopher in school), and I found your blog randomly through someone else from Scottsboro, I'm sure. I loved reading your story, and I continue to check in and see the wonderful pictures of that precious boy!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Hello--I have de-lurked once before. I've enjoyed reading your blog for about a year, I think. I enjoy reading about your life and perspective and motherly observations. It's also fun to read about some of you (y'all!) in the Deep South (this coming from one way up in the Northwest--Seattle). :)