We may or may not ever be able to make an announcement that "we're pregnant"...but we have come to understand that the blessing is the fact that however parenthood happens, it is a miracle! ....... Now we have been home with our precious blessing from Russia since August 2007. Join us on our fun and crazy ride that we call "life with this child of mine."
Saturday, July 07, 2007
Wait.....Wait......Wait.....NOWHURRYUP!!

This has been one of the most interesting, frustrating, crazy things about the Russian adoption process. So...much...waiting.

And we could not wait for the waiting to end.

But now that the waiting is finally come to a close, we only have a week to get things done! I think I've mentioned, before, that I'm a procrastinator. I work best under a tad bit of pressure. Well, I am now under a tad bit more than a tad bit of pressure. And I'm wondering when I will have time to accomplish everything that needs to be accomplished! The past 4 months have been filled with complaints about waiting…but once we got that unexpected call, my brain has actually gone into the mode of, “wait! I need more time!” I actually want more waiting?

Interesting phenomenon.

And really, we don’t want to wait anymore. Truthfully, we don’t need to wait anymore. In fact, if we had to drop everything and travel tomorrow, we could. But the problem lies in the fact that there are things around the house that need to be done. Little things, that I’ve been working on, but not finished withCleaning out the garage, for instance. Our garage is organized in a "this pile needs to go to Hannah Home" and "this pile is for whatever else." But that's just it, it is in piles.

Little I will not care if we have piles of stuff in the garage. But I will. And I will be a much happier mommy if I can get as much stuff, as possible, done before we leave. Less to do when we get back - hence, more time to spend with our child!

Anyway, some of the things that need to be done before we leave:

  • the wonderful garage cleaning (which is really a matter of loading up stuff & taking it to the HH donation site)
  • buy a vacuum cleaner (ours just bit the dust - perfect timing, huh?)
  • buy dog & cat food
  • set up the dogs' appointment with the vet for a couple days' stay & baths when we come home
  • call the cell phone company & make sure we still have the International calling plan where calls are $3.99 from Russia, instead of $4.99!
  • have an extra key made for our housesitter (I don't think she gets around to reading the blog, but she's actually a friend -- L -- who will be taking care of things for us while we're gone)
  • schedule payments for all our bills from now to the first week in August
    get a suit for court (many thanks to my friend, S, who brought me several suits to try - none of which worked - but I guess it's just my signal that I need to get a suit. N & I are gonna run to B'ham to see what we can find, hopefully there are still some 4th of July sales going on!)
  • CHILDPROOF! (one of the first things Little I did, when we first met him, was walk right past us… to a big potted plant sitting under the window, and DIG IN. He actually put the dirt in his mouth before anyone could get to him. Yes, our home is about to be changed forever. We don’t have a lot of breakables down low – and we don’t have potted plants in the house, because we have a cat that eats plants – but we do have outlets and cabinets that little hands do not need to get into! I have the supplies for childproofing, just gotta put them to use!)
  • Finish packing. Little I is officially packed...although I'm about to do the proverbial "unpack half of the things you packed and then you will be set." I think I've got WAY too many clothes packed for him - especially given the fact that we will have access to a washer/dryer while we're there. I need to realize that yes, he will be able to wear clothes when he gets home, he doesn't have to have ALL of his clothes on his body in the first 2 weeks we know him! (I went shopping with a friend, C, last night & I told her that I'm so excited about all of Little I's clothes...that I feel like he will be a little babydoll for me to put clothes on. It's crazy. But hey, it's me!)

I'm sure there's more to add to the list, but I can't think of it right now.

My sister is planning to take us to the airport when we leave. I think that secretly, she loves this job...maybe it's because she gets to drive our car? I don't know, but she is coming down a couple days early to, as she put it, "help however you need help...and stay out of the way however you need me to stay out of the way."

Sarah...I'm thinking the garage is calling your name...

17 Comments:
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Haha-- I was actually reading this, thinking, "Well, I can help with the garage, and I can make the run for the pet food....." So you worry about the things that YOU absolutely have to take care of and I'll be down there Thursday afternoon/evening to help with everything you need me to help with... The "housesitter" can also have my key to the house if that will help-- since I don't live in town anymore, I suppose I need to give that key back anyway... Well, I'm very excited and I can't wait to see you guys on Thursday! And remember that I'll be there for a few days after you guys leave, so if there are things that can be taken care of AFTER the fact, don't sweat about it now. Wow. Anyway-- See you Thursday! Love, Sae Sae

Blogger Carey and Norman said...
I am just now getting to read all the blogs from the past week and wow...was I so excited to read your wonderful and exciting news!! Many congratulations on the Court Date!! I know that you were anticipating the call any day and I'm so happy that the call finally came! I can only imagine the excitement and joy you must be feeling at this time. I cannot wait to continue reading your blog over the next month as you prepare for your trip to Russia to bring little I home. So many blessings and prayers go out to you during this time. May God give you strength and patience during the next few weeks as you bring home your son.

Best wishes always-

Carey and Norman too!!

Blogger Unknown said...
OH, man, you're making me want to start my "list."
Don't worry, you will get it all done. Are you traveling a few days early? Today is the 7th, court is on the 20th, seems to me you still have almost two weeks (minus travel), well, maybe a week and a half? OK, it really is just a little more than a week so. I won't write anymore, don't want to take up too much of your time. Get busy and tackle that list now. :)

I completely felt the same way!!! Wait wait wait and then No, Wait, I need more time!!! We put off things like the babyproofing and garage cleaning too! Our garage got 1/2-way cleaned, and the locks were put on the cabinets and drawers the week before we left for court. I'm so glad they did!! Owen immediately opened the doors when he got to the hotel room and home too. He uses them to pull up to stand some too, which he would hurt himself falling backwards if there weren't locks to keep them closed! I had to get a suit too, 2 days before we left, remember??!! I found one at Dillard's...not sure if you have Dillard's there, but it was a blazer/pant black suit that fit nicely, wasn't too hot, and the pieces could be worn separately. It was perfect for court. I just wore a white blouse beneath and bought fake pearls so I didn't have to travel with my real ones!

I am sooo excited for you!! Can't wait to read your posts from Vlad!!

Big hugs,
Adrienne

PS If you don't get it all done, it's okay. Little I won't mind :O)

Blogger adoptedthree said...
WoW
Awesome planning and so much fun'
I am jealous
In a small adoption way
Because u are bringing home the love of ur lives,
Joy and blessings

Blogger Unknown said...
Hey, just wanted to see if you had considered using Skype for phone calls. You use your computer (are you taking a computer?), the set-up is free and the talk-time is basically free, just whatever you pay for internet use at the hotel. We used it and called home almost everyday. I know it's another thing to add to your list of things to do, but it was something we did at the last minute, it doesn't take too long to set up. Oh, whoever you are going to call has to have Skype on their computer too - and internet connection. Anyway, if it works out, it would be cheaper than 3.99/minute on the cell phone. You can get it at Skype.com. For free you can call from one computer to another. If you want to sign up for 'paid' service then I think you can call computer to land-line (maybe cell, I'm not sure) Check it out!

Blogger Becky and Keith said...
I think the "hurry up" part of this might just be a way to prepare us for parenthood because once you get Little I, it's going to be non-stop fun!! :-) It's kind of like a crash course in how to run around like a mad woman trying to do 90 things while your child is napping. :-) So excited for you and can't wait to see pictures! :-)

Blogger Ronda said...
We are right there with you. Our date is the 18th. The most amazing thing was seeing our children's names on their airplane tickets yesterday! I kept it to a sniffle at the Delta counter but it was tough. We leave Wednesday and somehow my list looks longer today than it did on Friday. Which reminds me I should be working on it instead of reading blogs!
Ronda

Blogger Denise :o) said...
So excited for you!! :o))

Blogger kate said...
I think it's great to have things to do. Imagine if you just had to sit and WAIT until your plane left!

I'll second the skype idea. Or, buy a phone card in-country. I live in St. P. I just bought one (Apollo) that was 500r for ten hours to the US. That's...way, WAY less than your 3.99/minute. It's less than $.04/minute. Just a thought...and something you don't have to do until you're here!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
We'll be keeping in touch through MamaLin, looking forward to hearing all your news. I really think Sarah is coming early to celebrate your b-day! Happy B-day a little early - what a present! You have the greatest support group - and I'm sure you'll "git it done!" love Tatya Sis

Blogger Troy and Rachel said...
This is so exciting!! That list will help you get through the final days. I am already working on a list for us!! COngrats again - We can't wait to follow your journey.

Blogger Janine said...
Melissa, I'm so excited for you. I've been reading your adoption story for a few months now. How exciting now to think you are so close. We are just starting out on the paperchase. It's so thrilling and gives us great hope to see other families bring their children home.

Blogger Unknown said...
Congrats on Litte I's homecoming.

Blogger Jane said...
I have been out of the loop for a couple of weeks while Nikita has been here... I am going to read through and get caught up...but I do understand that a big PRAISE GOD is in order!!!! Thank you Jesus for answering our prayers!

Blogger Deb said...
What a great sister. You'll get it all done and whatever you don't... well then it can wait. You leave so soon. :o)

Blogger JennStar said...
Ok, so what's been marked off the list?? LOL!! And I'm right there with you on the garage stuff- when we go out of town, I like to leave my house very clean and in order, just so that when I return, I come home to a clean and in order home! Nothing to stress about but wonderful to get as much done as possible, if you can!! Counting down the days with you!! Whew-hoo!!!