We may or may not ever be able to make an announcement that "we're pregnant"...but we have come to understand that the blessing is the fact that however parenthood happens, it is a miracle! ....... Now we have been home with our precious blessing from Russia since August 2007. Join us on our fun and crazy ride that we call "life with this child of mine."
Monday, August 13, 2007
The Plum..Nature's Laxative
Thank you for all your thoughts on constipation! (never thought I'd say that, did you?) Iliya and I took a trip to the grocery store, yesterday, in search of some plum juice and/or prunes. We found both. I haven't tried getting him to eat a prune yet, because - frankly, I can't touch the things. I'm not a fan of dried fruit - it's a texture issue - so we did the next best thing and broke open the plum juice (which, by the way, touted its wonder in digestive health right on the label!).
I watered it down a little bit...and Iliya drank it like a champ!
Ten minutes later? A wonderful,easy poop! (never thought I'd say that either)
They're not kidding when they say that plums/prunes are good for the digestive tract! Fast acting, too!
Same thing happened today. We ran a ton of errands this morning, and I (wisely) waited to give him his plum juice until we were about 8 minutes from home. Notice I said "wisely." Yep, I will shout it from the mountaintops. Plum juice worked for us!!
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In other news, Iliya has finally mastered the sign for "more." We've been working on it, albeit not very consistently...and he's used it a time or two on his own. This morning, though, at breakfast, I asked for the sign...and he produced it! Not once or twice, but over & over! In between bites, he would try whining/grunting and then screeching...when neither of those produced food in his mouth, he would revert to the sign. And then he just used the sign without being preceeded by the whining or screeching.
Ahhhh....it's such a small accomplishment. But a big one at the same time!
Our morning errands fell right in the middle of snacktime, so I had brought along some crackers. Iliya was in his stroller, and I pulled a few crackers out of his bag (he didn't see me do this) and handed him one. When he was done with it, he looked up at me and signed "more." Yep, he knows what it means.
In the car, on the way home, he threw previously-said plum juice down. There was no way for me to get it for him (and I wouldn't have, immediately, anyway). I happened to look in the rear-view mirror, to catch him looking down, signing "more." Isn't that called accomodation? He's accomodating the "more" sign for more than just his oatmeal in the morning.
Cool.
Here's a video to show you. It's not great quality, but it's a video nonetheless. And please, pretty please, ignore my talking. I hate the way I sound on video!
(by the way: The best way to view this video is to let it start playing, and then hit pause. You will notice a red line beginning to form beside the play button. This red line means that the video is loading. Once the line is complete, then play the video. That way, you can watch it without it being too choppy)
Now, in case you're wondering. Yes, Iliya usually feeds himself. And we are always the ones to give him the food (no one else provides food for him yet); we want him to learn a certain level of independence while still depending on us. But we use breakfast as the "bonding" meal where we feed him. We may stop this soon, but for now...it's really a nice bonding time for us.
So there you have it. Plum juice and the sign for "more." It just doesn't get any better than that!
Precious video! Seeing those sweet hands signing just made me cry. And, oh my goodness, what expressive eyes he has! It looked like he was trying to talk, too... but in the meantime, how wonderfully empowering for him to be learning and using signs!
He's brilliant! He learned it so fast, it's unbelievable. You are doing a fantastic job and he's just so adorable - you couldn't have asked for a better baby.
He's so cute! And I think its amazing how he looks at you every time he signs more - he's making great eye contact!!!! Keep sharing those pics and stories. And enjoy that precious baby.
I love it!!! He's one smart cookie! You should teach him how to sign, "Ipod" or "Say Ouch" or "pork chops lightly breaded in cheese nips". We'd be in business then. Also, I just have to say I'm impressed that you recognized Prothro out in public. ;) Love, Lala
Melissa, I have been following your blog and it is by far my favorite. The signing is precious, and he is sooo cute! Congratulations on your new son and safe arrival home.
I know everyone is saying it but I jsut can't help myself...HE IS SOOO ADORABLE! Ilove a little man who loves his grub too. How irresistable is that? So happy to see how well he is doing!
Sorry I haven't commented in awhile. Iliya is adorable and doing so well with his sign language. Such a great tool to use while they are also learning English.
As you saw in our yahoo e-mail, we have been given Vladivostok as our region as well. We are considering a waiting child. We should know more this week when Mareda is able to talk to Irina.
Precious, precious, precious!!! I took notice of the "drumming" on the table with his hands -- much like Uncles Christopher & Johnathan, so that can only mean that a drum set must be in y'all's future :o) I shall be on a lookout for one...of course we still have your little Fisher-Price one we can bring for starters.
"When I was very young, most of my childhood heroes wore capes, flew through the air,
or picked up buildings with one arm. They were spectacular and got a lot of attention.
But as I grew, my heroes changed, so that now I can honestly say that anyone who does
anything to help a child is a hero to me."
~Fred Rogers
"I'll love you forever I'll like you for always, As long as I'm living My baby you'll be."
~Robert Munsch
"Beginnings are scary, endings are usually sad, but its the middle that counts the most. Try to remember that when you find yourself at a new beginning"
~Hope Floats
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"
~Fleur Conkling Heylinger
"The real issue in life is not how many blessings we have, but what we do with our blessings. Some people have many blessings and hoard them. Some have few and give everything away."
~Fred Rogers
Keep sharing those pics and stories. And enjoy that precious baby.
Kristin and Klaire
Love,
Lala
love
sis
Bless you all,
Pam Parker
As you saw in our yahoo e-mail, we have been given Vladivostok as our region as well. We are considering a waiting child. We should know more this week when Mareda is able to talk to Irina.
Many Blessings.
hugs...mom