We may or may not ever be able to make an announcement that "we're pregnant"...but we have come to understand that the blessing is the fact that however parenthood happens, it is a miracle! ....... Now we have been home with our precious blessing from Russia since August 2007. Join us on our fun and crazy ride that we call "life with this child of mine."
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
The Daily News
Okay...Sorry, I've been working on this post for a while now, in the little bit of spare time I have. I've been waiting for a video to upload, so I can post it. That's one of the things that has taken me so long, but it's finally ready to post, so... for those of you who check my blog 50 times a day , waiting for an update (*wink* you know who you are!), here you go!

I found a jogging stroller at Target (thanks to the girls @ work who gave me gift cards!!) and every morning, Iliya and I take a walk through the neighborhood. He loves the rides, and I love the opportunity to just get out of the house for a bit, without having to load up in the car.

A new friend of mine told me (before we ever left for Russia) that she, like her mom, is prone to mild depression and so to keep herself out of the "blues," she has to have a bit of sunshine everyday, as well as some activity. Not long after she told me that, I read something similar somewhere else (Elle's blog, I think?). I am prone to cabin fever, and I do get the blues, which causes everything to seem very big to me. So I'm going to try to use our morning walks as a way to see if I can handle everyday life without getting too stressed.

Getting outside in our triple-digit-no-rain heat is really difficult (I can't wait until the Fall, when we can get outside more and play in the yard), so once Iliya gets up in the mornings, we eat breakfast and hop in the stroller for a stroll through the neighborhood. Not only is this good for our moods, but hopefully it will be good for my physical health, also! Lots of benefits!

So far, so good, it seems! Over the past couple days, Iliya has seemed even happier than he was before...and I feel better, too! We walked Heathcliff this morning. I thought I was probably an idiot for trying to walk my crazy dog - while pushing a stroller - but it worked out fine! In fact, I think having the stroller as a sort of "barrier" helped Heathcliff to behave oh-so-well. Of course, every barking dog in the neighborhood was being walked also...AND someone had let their dogs out of the house with no leash on. That is NOT a good combination with my Heathcliff. But we made it through without incident, thank goodness!! I think Heathcliff is as tired as I am!

Anyway, what else? Iliya's digestive tract seems to be back on track...I am thinking that the stress of traveling + the new environment caused him to have a rough go of it for a little while...but now, all seems to be better.

Also...sleeping. The past week has consisted of me rocking Iliya to sleep (which takes all of about 2 minutes, average), putting him in his crib, and then him waking up around 1 or 2 a.m. to come to bed with us, where he will sleep till around 8:00 (without us for the last couple hours of that). We thought we were REALLY doing well, night-before-last, when he woke up at FIVE a.m. and came to bed with us, and slept till about 7:00.

But then last night, he slept ALL the way through the night, in his own bed! He got up about 6:45 this morning - boy, we are making progress!! I hope it sticks! Of course, it's not even lunchtime (which means, not naptime quite yet) and he's already a walking zombie - because he's used to getting a little more sleep than he got last night. Oh well...maybe this means he'll have a good nap!

And one last thing...someone asked how we taught him to sign. It's really easy...and yet, not so easy. The easy part is that all you (pretty much) have to do is sign the word whenever you say it, whenever you use it. So whenever he wants more food, we ask "More?" while signing more. Occasionally (if 2 of us are here), we would help him a little bit, to make the motions (he picked up the handshape immediately, which surprised me...but haven't I talked incessantly about his great fine motor skills? but I digress...). They key is consistency. Oh, yeah, and THAT is the hard part. Doing it every time, till he picks it up. Fortunately, he's a pretty quick learner - and picked it up despite our lack of 100% consistency. And he has used it several times, not only in "food" situations. Yesterday, he asked to play some "more"...and asked me to do it again, by signing "more." So yeah, he's a pretty smart cookie! I just need to get down to business & do better about teaching him more than that one sign. (He created his own sign for "sing" - it's really cute)

And now, before I close, someone also commented (a couple posts ago, I think?), asking to see referral/1st trip pictures. So last night, I stayed up way past my bedtime, trying to put this video together. Remember, let it start playing...then click "pause" and let it load. That way, you'll get an uninterrupted playtime. Also, if you are so inclined, turn up your volume; I set it to a song. I hope you enjoy it. It still gets me teary.

21 Comments:
Anonymous Anonymous said...
Totally awesome movie!! Hopefully I won't mess up our computer with my tears!
He is the absolute cutest little man I have ever seen! We can't wait to see him again in a couple of weeks.
Love Nana & Papa

Blogger Troy and Rachel said...
Thank you Melissa for sharing your movie with everyone. It was wonderful!! He is such an amazing little guy and lucky to have found you!!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
OK, I got teary, too!! LOL! What a sweet video! Thanks for sharing!

Blogger Becky and Keith said...
Today is waterworks day for me! What a great video and the song was perfect. Thanks so much for sharing!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
That was the best movie ever!! Thanks for sharing. I think he was meant for ya'll.

Blogger Susan said...
Thanks for the video Melissa! We had a frustrating call with our agency last night with paperwork and we were very confused about things. It really upset me last night and it has been heavy on my heart today. All I needed was to watch this video to remind me why we are doing all of this paperwork and going through all this work.

Iliya is such a beautiful boy!

Blogger Robin said...
You did a wonderful job on that video. We all thank you for staying up late so that you could share it with us. It was a beautiful story with an even more beautiful ending. Thanks again!

Blogger Shabby said...
What a powerful video. Hasnt he changed in that short amount of time.
He is so well adjusted. His smile is just so beautiful!!!

Blogger Kathy said...
Great video- had me teary eyed! Thanks for sharing.

Blogger Unknown said...
Melissa,

Love the video, it was worth the wait! I love that baby picture, it looks so much like him still - well, maybe that's a stupid comment, but some babys really change a lot from their infant pictures.

Hey, we 'might' be spending a day or so in Atlanta on our way home - we have relatives near there. Maybe we can say 'Hi' in person ?!

Blogger Krista said...
He is such a precious little guy! I really enjoy reading your blog!

I loved your movie!! It is so sweet and something that I bet Iliya (and his mommy and daddy)will love to see for many years to come! He is so cute! Thanks for sharing it with us!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
The video is wonderful. Thanks! This precious child has found his way into my heart through your posts and photos. This whole process has been such a long road and yet so very much worth it all for you and Nathan as well as for your beautiful son (and all your family, too). God's goodness is so amazing! Just look how far HE has brought you!!! And this is just the beginning. HALLELUJAH!!!

Love and blessings,
Pam Parker

Blogger Chris said...
Thanks for sharing your video! Iliya is a cutie! He grew so much during those 4 months between trips.

Loved the song. Very moving. That is great that he slept in his own bed. It's not bad if he sleeps with you but like you say way more ideal for everyone to have their own space and a good night's sleep.
Interesting what you wrote about depression and how hot it has been. I guess heat can be just as oppresive as extreme cold. I've lived in Alaska all my life so I've nevr experienced that side. People up here get 'light boxes' with full spectrum light bulbs to sit in front of in the winter to keep from getting blue. All you have to do is step outside for 5 minutes and your solar bulbs are full to bursting. Pretty cool! (Or hot or something :) )

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I'm still in awe of how God works in such great ways. He knew who was to be your son and didn't let the ocean keep you from each other. You found your way to the child created just for you. What a miracle that is, and all part of God's plan for your lives. It's simply beyond words.

Thank you for sharing that video. I was holding back the tears.

Blogger Carey and Norman said...
Yes, thank you for the precious movie. It was wonderful to see the changes Iliya has made since your first visit until now. He is adorably sweet and we cannot wait to have those same experiences too! It was great seeing how you played with Iliya during your visits and gives us ideas of what to bring.

Many, many blessings!

Blogger Cori said...
Oh my goodness, how could you not get teary?!? He is just a precious little boy and that video just made me ache to adopt. **HUGS**

Anonymous Anonymous said...
WOW! He HAS grown and changed so much! All of my friends ask me about him and I know that I'm partial, but I can only tell them how smart, hilarious, adorable.... I could go on!!! I can't wait til I get to see the little guy in action again! Love you! Lala

Blogger kate said...
what a sweet video. he's amazing!

Blogger Leslie said...
Hi Melissa my name is Leslie my husband Bryan and I are adopting from Tver Russia. I came across your blog and was in awwww of you oof your precious family. I wanted you to know thank you for giving us some insight on the beauty we have in store for us.
Thank you so much.