We may or may not ever be able to make an announcement that "we're pregnant"...but we have come to understand that the blessing is the fact that however parenthood happens, it is a miracle! ....... Now we have been home with our precious blessing from Russia since August 2007. Join us on our fun and crazy ride that we call "life with this child of mine."
Monday, November 06, 2006
Needing Insight...
Okay, you Russian adoptive families, we need you to come crawling out of the woodworks to help us with a decision. I know that this will be a "personal" decision, but we've gotta have some pros and cons -- and/or some personal experiences -- thrown at us, because this decision is a big one.

Anyway, M from our agency called today and said that they have 2 Russian regions in mind for us: Vladivostok and Tver. Here is what I know about each of these at this moment:

Vladivostock
  • This region is about an 8 hr. flight from Moscow (at the end of the Siberian Railway, from what I understand?) For the first trip, we'd likely go through Seoul, S. Korea, since we don't have to go to Moscow on the first trip. However, on the 2nd trip, we'd make an in-country flight from Moscow to Vladivostok and back to Moscow again.
  • At this point, there are no additional documents we need to take care of in order to send our dossier to Vlad. Before our 2nd trip, there will be a few that we'll need to update/create.
  • There are no families (with our agency) registered - at this time - who are waiting for infant/toddler boys, so our referral could be fairly quick *** (read the fine print at the end of this post)
  • The time between first trip and second trip in Vlad is generally 4-5 mos.

Tver

  • This region is within driving distance of Moscow
  • There are quite a few additional docs we need to take care of in order to get our dossier ready to submit. And then before our court date, there are more we'll have to complete
  • There are 14 families (with our agency) registered - at this time...6 families waiting for boys, and the rest are waiting for girls or "either" gender.
  • The time between first trip & second trip is typically about 2 months.

Having said all that, I spoke w/ M again, and she said that they typically say it takes several months to get a referral, once your dossier is registered. So for you family who are reading this...this is the fine print: a quick(er) referral does not mean "home by Christmas" Ha ha, that was a little extreme, but it's true, even a quick referral will likely take a little while.

So - now - we really need input. If you don't want to post it in the comments, feel free to email me (mbridges@bama.ua.edu). And many thanks in advance for anything you can tell me!!

Love to all!

2 Comments:
Blogger Deb said...
We don't have a region yet so this is just from what I read in Russian Adoption Handbook.
I just skimmed the 2 regions. They say that Tver has 4 baby houses and don't mention how many Vlad has. They did mention that Vlad was closed to agencies that did not have the right connections. (This was written in 2000 & updated in 2004)

I would ask your agency why they don't have any families registered there and consider those reasons when you make your choice. Also if you can find a yahoo group on each region and see if can pose the question on there.

Not sure if I helped or not but that's my limited advice.

Blogger Elle said...
I'm with Debbie. Post this at FRUA and Soul of Adoption and ask. Find the Yahoo groups for each region. We had 1 blogger just come home from Vlad so you may ask her. Bethee http://betheesnextstep.blogspot.com/ She may be able to help.

Is it an agency requirement that you go through Moscow on your 2nd trip? If not you don't have to. It was cheaper for us to fly all the way around the world with 1 way tickets than it was to go through Moscow on round trips. If you aren't bound by what your agency says I say go with Albina at Red Star Travel to help you with your arrangements. She is here in Seattle, Russian and AWESOME!!!! Red Star is the preferred agency of the Russian Consulate here in Seattle and we have yet to have an issue with our Visas. She takes care of those too. She is the one who got us the round the world tickets.

As far as the 4-5 month wait goes... it is tough. I won't sugar coat that one. Our wait was 4 months. But in the end the waiting disappears.

Best of luck!